Internet Safety For Kids: 4 Signs Your Teenager May Be in Trouble Online
I live and work in the online world. Social Media is where I spend I good portion of my day marketing my business and the businesses of my clients. I know the ins and outs and many of the back doors and traps associated with social sites. My kids never stood a chance. Their online life was an open book to me, sometimes without them knowing. Unfortunately the social media world has some dangers associated with it. Most parents of pre-teens and teens are growing increasingly concerned on how to effectively monitor online networking for their kids. Over the next few weeks I want to share some thoughts and insights that I hope will allow parents to find a balanced approach to their “household rules” for socializing online. I hope this helps families develop safe social plans for time spent online. Bear in mind this is just one mother’s humble perspective.
4 Signs That Your Teenager May Be In Trouble Online
Are you a parent who has a teenager who uses the Internet? If you are, do you know that your teenager may run into trouble online? Their chances increase when they are using the Internet to socialize with friends or make new friends. Your child may unintentionally fall victim to a child predator online or they may be harassed by those that they know online. But, would you know if your child is in trouble?
Here are four signs that your teenager may be in trouble online. They transcend the evolution from email to Myspace to Facebook to Snap Chat to… the next big thing!If any of these signs apply to your child, you will want to take action right away. Remember to that online is not necessarily on the computer!
1 – They Get on the Computer at the Same Time Everyday
What many parents do not realize is that children and teenagers can easily become targets of online child predators. Many also do not realize that this process doesn’t always happen overnight. Some child predators pretend to be the ages of their targets. They then work to gain the trust of those targets. This can take a few days or a few weeks. You may be able to tell if this is happening though if your child gets on the Internet at the same time, every single day. This is a good sign that they are communicating directly with someone, who may not have pure intentions.
2 – They Are Secretive When They Use the Computer
How does your child act when they are using the computer? Does your child try to hide what they are doing online from you? If they automatically shut off the computer or put a game on the screen, they may be trying to prevent you from seeing what they are doing online. This is a good sign that your child may be doing something they shouldn’t be doing online, like having direct, personal conversations with a stranger, who may be a child predator.
3 – They Are Very Happy When Getting Off the Computer
If your child is overly happy when they sign off the Internet, they may be on the path to trouble. This sign can be a little bit tricky though. Your child may be happy because they just finished a long school project, but you honestly never know. If your teenager is communicating with someone online, they may be in the process of starting a relationship, which they are happy about. Unfortunately, many teenagers do not realize that anyone can hide behind a computer. That is why it is important that you talk to your child about the dangers of starting an online romance.
4 – They Are Very Depressed
As previously stated, your child may be very happy when using the internet, but another warning sign is that they are depressed, especially when they sign off the computer. What many parents do not realize is that other teenagers use the Internet for harassment. If your teenager has a falling out with one of their friends, they may find themselves being harassed online. If that is the case, your child may seem very down, depressed, and withdrawn.
The four above mentioned signs are just a few of the many that you will want to look for to see if your child is in trouble online. With that said, there are additional signs that you will want to be on the lookout for, the biggest being a change in behavior. If you do suspect that your child has or is about to run into trouble online, be sure to talk to them and as soon as possible.